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The sunshine blogger award!

Thanks to Addi, over at all that I am, all that I ever was for the nomination. Its been a long time since my our blog was nominated for an award. I’m happy to accept.
Thank the person who nominated you. Done!
Answer the 11 questions set out and ask 11 more to your nominees. Done.
Nominate 11 blogs, not sure I can do that but I’ll nominate a few.

So the questions addi asked…

1. If you could have a pet dragon, what would you name him/her?
I think I’d name her kumari. I just like that name.

2. What is you favourite book of all time?
Hmmm thats a tough one. maybe I know why the cage bird sings by Maya angelou?

3. If a movie was made about your life, who would play your love interest?
Not sure. I dont have crushes on many actresses, much less know their names lol.

4. What country would you most like to visit? And why?
Canada or australia but probably canada because I’ve been to America and I’d like to compare the two.

5. What are three things that fill you with happiness?
Binge watching law and order SVU, seeing my niece and nephew, cuddling with Nitro.

6. What is something that no-one else knows about you?
hmmm well there isnt much that nobody knows. I’m a pretty open person.

7. How do you think mental health services could be improved in your country?
With better funding and less budget cuts.

8. Chocolate or Ice-cream?

9. What is one of your favourite quotes?
I used to have superhuman powers but my therapist took them away.

10. What is your happiest memory?
I have many. One is going to disneyworld in florida. Getting nitro. When my niece and nephew were born. When I kissed my partner for the first time.

11. Why do you blog?

To make people aware of did and ptsd. To vent my feelings. To express myself. To make friends and connections.

My nominees
Matters to Sam

Ellie Sophia

Therapy sucks

Living while healing

Me, finding the missing pieces

My questions for you to answer

1 When did you last laugh?
2 Do you like spicy food?
3 What do you enjoy about blogging?
4 Do you like to talk, or be a listener?
5 If your pets could talk, what do you think they’d say?
6 Rain or sunshine?
7 Do you like thunderstorms?
8 Your favourite song of all time?
9 What do you wish people knew about your mental illness struggle?
10 Do you like talking on the phone?
11 Do you like flying?

Sunday Random Q and A

1. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
I’m not sure. I guess sometimes I would. If I had a choice I’d like to be a writer, and I still might be one some day.
2. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Not usually. I dont have phone anxiety thankfully. I like talking on the phone. I’m good at it too lol.
3. What would constitute a perfect day for you?
A day where everything in my life went right, where I got to see the people who are important to me, where the sun shone bright and no clouds were in the sky
4. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
I sing to myself all the time. I love singing. Cant really rmemember when I last sang to someone else.
5. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
The mind. I dont care about looks but to lose your mind due to old age or dementia or another affliction would be terrible. I’d rather be dead than do that.
6. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
Sadly I think it will be either by suicide, or illness, since I’ve attempted suicide on numerous occasions its still a part of my life at times, I dont think it ever goes away.
7. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

For my guide dog, my health, my family, my therapist and psychiatrist

8. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

I’d love it if I could make my dad not drink alcohol to excess, and if I was able to stop his anger outbursts, I would not want my mental illnesses, or abuse history.

9. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

I’d like the ability to cook for myself, and I’d also like the ability to drive.

10. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

How I was going to die, if I’d ever recover, if my sister was going to have any more kids

11. What does friendship mean to you?

to me friendship is where you treat someone with respect, love them, accept them for who they are and where they’re at, treat them with integrity and honesty

12. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

I have a partner whom I love dearly. I’m a very affectionate person, I freely give and recieve hugs and kisses to family and friends

13. When did you last laugh?

Last night while I was on skype with my friend Sarah

14. Are you a morning person or a night owl?

I’m definitely a night owl 😛 my sleep patterns are weird!

15. Seen anything weird lately?

No. Unfortunately my life is boring lol.

10 days, day one!

Day one of 10 days 10 entries and 10 things that make you happy is to list 10 songs that make you happy. So…here goes.

1 I kissed a girl by katy perry
2 the rainbow connection from the muppet movie
3 only girl in the world by rihanna
4 so what, pink
5 blow me one last kiss, pink
6 superbase, nikki minaj
7 shake it off, taylor swift
8 cheerleader, its a dance tune cant remember the name of the artist
9 love me colin ray
10 let it go, from frozen!

10 categories, 10 entries and 10 times to be happy! Blog challenge!

Here is a blog challenge I thought I’d participate in. I’ve seen at least 3 of my blogger friends start doing it so thought I’d jump on board too. Here is the master list of the 10 days worth of entries and what you need to do to participate! Have fun!

Day One: Ten Songs that make you happy

Day Two: Ten Places that make you feel positive, inspired and happy

Day Three: Ten Positive Memories that you never want to let go of

Day Four: Ten Influential People or role models (people you dont know!!)

Day Five: Ten Books/Movies/Creative works that have changed your life

Day Six: Ten destinations that you would loveto visit

Day Seven: Ten of your favourite historical moments

Day Eight: Ten of your favourite foods (and why!)

Day Nine: Ten of your favourite photos!

Day Ten: Ten ways to get yourself out of a rut. (To cheer yourself up!)

Tattoos anyone?

Do you have any tattoos? Do you like them? Would you like one if you dont have any? If you do have some what do you have?
I’ve always wanted to get a butterfly. Ever since our teen years I’ve wanted that. Either a butterfly or a dolphine, those were my choices. I think though a butterfly represents more of me. And what I stand for and am about.
I think it would be so painful though so that is why I’ve not gone and done it yet. Plus I dont really like the idea of skin sagging when I get old. And what if I go and then half way through I cant take the pain and its too late to stop? So many questions.
Tell me about your tattoos, do you have any that represent your illness, or healing from it?